Returning with a family

If you are planning to return from development service with a family, there is a lot to think about. You will not (unfortunately) be able to plan everything, nor even foresee everything, any more than you could when you departed.

And if you have found a new partner from a non-EU country while you were abroad, there are additional matters that you must pay attention to. In the case of binational couples and families, the living situation of individuals and families is governed by legal regulations such as the law on foreigners and family law. We provide basic information for you here.
We have also compiled information about children and schools here.

Getting married

"For a bi-cultural partnership, returning to one of the partners' countries of origin is often a source of confusion, because structural challenges can be mistaken for personal accusations. [...] It is very important to be aware of the structural conditions so that the personal dimension does not suffer."

Mauricio Salazar

Literature and links for further information

  • deutschland.de: Multilingual information mainly for international users. Information about Germany - politics, economics, culture, environment, science, and life.
  • The official online portal, "Make it in Germany”, is part of the campaign of various ministries and the Employment Agency to attract foreign professionals. It provides comprehensive information in several languages.
  • Facts about Germany: The portal with the latest data, facts, and information about Germany.
  • Working and Living in Germany - Federal Foreign Office 
  • Welcome to Germany: BAMF brochure in several languages.
  • The Association of Binational Families and Partnerships, iaf e.V.  also provides advice and information for binational couples and families through its regional offices throughout Germany. The Association provides information on legal issues, cultural issues, and bringing children up to be multilingual. The Association also produces guidebooks: “Ratgeber: Alltag in Deutschland. Ratgeber für Ausländerrecht und Internationales Familienrecht.“ 8th edition, published in Frankfurt am Main by Brandes & Apsel Verlag GmbH, 2012.
  • Family Information Tool: This tool, which the Federal Ministry for Family Affairs, Senior Citizens, Women and Youth makes available on its website, enables you to determine in a few steps which family benefits and services you and your family are likely to be entitled to.
  • InterNations Expat Community: Exchange portal for expats worldwide, with regular online conversations.